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Location
How far are you willing to drive for a date? (You will only be matched with someone whose distance is not out of range of yours.)
miles from
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Preferences
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Age
Enter your most desired age range in the first row (rated 5). Use the + button to add additional acceptable ranges with lower desirability ratings.
5
Religious Denomination
For each denomination, mark whether it is acceptable or unacceptable. For acceptable options, rate desirability (1–5). At least one must be rated 5.
Yeshivish
Modern Yeshivish
Haredi
Modern Orthodox Machmir
Modern Orthodox
Lubavitch
Chasidish
Modern Chasidish
Frum (don't select if another option accurately describes you)
Yeshiva
Post-Marriage Plans
If he is still in yeshiva full time, what do you want his plan for the future to be?
If you want him to begin working immediately, write 0 years.
For each option, mark whether it is acceptable or unacceptable. For acceptable options, rate desirability (1–5). If you are totally fine with more than one option, rate them both 5. At least one option must be rated 5.
Plans to learn full time forever
Plans to begin working in chinuch between and years after marriage
Plans to begin working in field other than chinuch between and years after marriage
Career
Shomer Negiah
Would you date someone who isn't or formerly wasn't shomer negiah?
10
Marital Status
For each option, mark whether it is acceptable or unacceptable. At least one option must be acceptable.
Never married
Divorced
Widowed
Shidduch Picture
About Me
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Tell Us About Yourself
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Family
Religious Denomination
Background
Davening Nusach
Hat and Jacket
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High School Secular Studies
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Appearance
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Secular Movies
Phone
hrs
min
Would you be opposed to your 17 year old child having each of the following phones?
Hashkafic Decision-Making
Based on what my family believes
Based on which side makes more logical and rational sense
Based on which lifestyle seems to lead families to have a positive/kadosh environment
Based on what my rav suggests
Based on what most fits my personal circumstances
Halachic Adherence
Relative to Your Peers
Relative to your peers who are your denomination:
Torah Study (Men)
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Aliyah
Kiruv
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Dating
Dating History
months
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Exercise
Sleep Habits
hrsmin
Health Conditions
Mental Health
Alcohol
Nicotine
Drugs
Pets
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Politics
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Grandparents
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Role Model
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Hypothetical
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Hashkafic Disagreements
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Hashkafic Belief
Unpopular Belief
Ambitions
Interests
What Do You Like Doing?
Core Values
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Social Openness
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Simple vs. Complex
Very simple0Very complex
Very simple0Very complex
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Therapy
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Preferred Personality Traits
Select traits that you desire (click + button to add more traits), and rate their importance from 1 to 5 (5 is very important, 1 is barely important).
Select traits that are important to you for your spouse to have. List them in order of importance, with the most important at the top. Even if two traits are rated equally, put the more important one higher. Drag the handle (☰) on the left of a row to reorder.
Importance
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School Based Assumptions
One Last Thing
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Test Scores
In order to assess your math vs verbal tilt, please take a full length practice SAT test.
To get an accurate score, it is crucial to first take old practice SAT tests, to learn the format and improve your speed. After you have learned the format, take the newsest practice test. Practice first on practice tests 4, 5 and 6. Once you have learned the format, take practice test 11 to properly assess your verbal vs math tilt. We will access cognitive tilt based on practice test 11.
Confirm your identity by taking a live photo of your government-issued ID with your camera. The photo on your ID will be compared to your shidduch picture. Your ID image is not stored — it is only used for verification.
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Personality
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For each statement, indicate how accurately it describes you.
